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THOMAS-KILMANN CONFLICT MODE QUESTIONNAIRE

Consider situations in which you find your wishes differing from those of another person. How do you usually respond to such situations?

On the following pages are several pairs of statements describing possible behavioral responses. For each pair, please circle the "A" or "B" statement which is most characteristic of your own behavior. In many cases, neither the "A" nor the "B" statement may be very typical of your behavior, but please select the response which you would be more likely to use.

When done answering, transfer your answers to the scoring sheet on the last page, and sum each of the columns.

1. A. There are times when I let others take responsibility for solving the problem.

B. Rather than negotiate the things on which we disagree, I try to stress those things

upon which we both agree. 2. A. I try to find a compromise solution.

B. I attempt to deal with all of another's and my concerns.

3. A. I am usually firm in pursuing my goals.

B. I might try to soothe the other's feelings and preserve our relationship.

4. A. I try to find a compromise solution.

B. I sometimes sacrifice my own wishes for the wishes of the other person.

5. A. I consistently seek the other's help in working out a solution.

B. I try to do what is necessary to avoid useless tensions.

6. A. I try to avoid creating unpleasantness for myself.

B. I try to win my position.

 

 

 

7. A. I try to postpone the issue until I have had some time to think about it.

B. I give up some points in exchange for others.

 

8. A. I am usually firm in pursuing my goals.

B. I attempt to get all concerns and issues immediately out in the open.

 

9. A. I feel that differences are not always worrying about.

B. I make some effort to get my way.

 

10. A. I am firm in pursuing my goals.

B. I try to find a compromise solution.

 

11. A. I attempt to get all concerns and issues immediately out in the open.

B. I might try to soothe the other's feelings and preserve our relationship.

 

12. A. I sometimes avoid taking positions which would create controversy.

B. I will let another have some of their positions if they lets me have some of mine.

 

13. A. I propose middle ground.

B. I press to get my points made.

 

14. A. I tell another my ideas and ask them for theirs.

B. I try to show him the logic and benefits of my position.

 

 

 

15. A. I might try to soothe the other's feelings and preserve our relationship.

B. I try to do what is necessary to avoid tension.

 

16. A. I try not to hurt the other's feelings.

B. I try to convince the other person of the merits of my position.

 

17. A. I am usually firm in pursuing my goals.

B. I try to do what is necessary to avoid useless tensions.

 

18. A. If it makes the other person happy, I might let them maintain their views.

B. I will let the other person have some of their positions if they let me have some of mine.

 

19. A. I try to get all concerns and issues immediately out in the open.

B. I try to postpone the issue until I have had some time to think it over.

 

20. A. I attempt to immediately work through our differences.

B. I try to find a fair combination of gains and losses for both of us.

 

21. A. In approaching negotiations, I try to be considerate of the other person's feelings.

B. I always lean toward a direct discussion of the problem.

 

22. A. I try to find a position that is intermediate between mine and another person's.

B. I assert my wishes.

 

 

 

23. A. I am often concerned with satisfying all my wishes.

B. There are times when I let others take responsibility for solving problems.

24. A. If the other's position seems important to them, I would try to meet their wishes.

B. I try to get the other person to settle for a compromise.

25. A. I try to show the other person the logic and benefits of my position.

B. In approaching negotiations, I try to be considerate of the other person's wishes.

26. A. I propose a middle ground.

B. I am nearly always concerned with satisfying all my wishes.

27. A. I sometimes avoid taking positions that would create controversy.

B. If it makes the other person happy, I might let them maintain their views.

28. A. I am usually firm in pursuing my goals.

B. I feel that differences are not always worth worrying about.

29. A. I propose middle ground.

B. I feel that differences are not always worth worrying about.

30. A. I try not to hurt the other person's feelings.

B. I always share the problem with the other person so that we can work it out.

 

 

SCORING THE THOMAS-KILMANN CONFLICT MODE QUESTIONNAIRE Competing Collaborating Compromising Avoiding Accommodating

(Forcing)

(Problem Solving)

(Sharing)

(Withdrawal)

(Smoothing)

1. A B

2. B A

3. A B

4. A B

5. A B A

6. B A

7. B A

8. A B

9. B A

10. A B

11. A B

12. B A

13. B A

14. B A

15. B A

16. B A

17. A B

18. B A

19. A B

20. A B

21. B A

22. B A

23. A B

24. B A

25. A B

26. B A

27. A B

28. A B

29. A B

30. B A

Total the number of letters circled in each column.

Competing Collaborating Compromising Avoiding Withdrawing

(Forcing)

(Problem Solving)

(Sharing)

(Withdrawal)

(Smoothing)

 

 

 

THOMAS-KILMANN CONFLICT MODES: Interpreting Your Scores

Your profile of scores indicates the repertoire of conflict handling skills that you possess and use in conflict situations. One of the most often asked questions is "What are the right answers?" In this type of test, there are no "right" answers. All five modes of handling conflict are useful in various situations, and each represents a set of useful social skills. The effectiveness of any handling of conflict depends on the requirements of the conflict and the skill that is employed.

Each of us is capable of using all five conflict modes, and none of us can be characterized as having a single rigid style of dealing with conflict. However, because of personality traits or by habit, individuals tend to use one or two modes at a greater frequency than the others.

 

Competitive “The Shark”

Collaborative “The Owl”

Compromising “The Fox”

Avoiding “The Turtle”

Accommodating “The Teddy Bear”

 

Description

 

 

Motto

 

Sharks force others to accept their way, oblivious to needs or feelings of others. Sharks believe conflicts are settled by one person winning and one person losing. Sharks want to win and will fight at any cost to do so. "Might makes right."

Owls confront openly and fairly. Optimistic about conflict, Owls are committed to their personal goals and to others goals. Owls begin discussion by identifying openly the wishes of both, and are never satisfied until a solution is found that satisfies both. “ "Two heads are better than one."

Foxes compromise. A fox will give up some goals if you’ll give up some of yours. The Fox is similar to the Owl, but less optimistic about conflict bringing an improved relationship. "Split the difference."

Turtles believe it’s hopeless to try to resolve conflict and avoid people and issues that may cause conflict. The turtle feels helpless in reaching personal goals and refuses to cooperate with others in reaching theirs. "Leave well enough alone."

The Teddy Bear soothes. More than anything else, Teddy Bears want others to like and accept them. Teddy Bears are quick to accommodate to others and to ignore their own needs because they believe asking others to meet personal needs will harm the relationship. "Kill your enemies with kindness."

Conflict with this type might feel like . . .

While you’re talking, Sharks are thinking of the next argument to defeat you.

When Owls talk, they may come on strong, but when you talk, they are listening carefully and sympathetically.

When Foxes are talking, they’re diplomatic but persuasive. When you talk, the Fox is trying hard to figure out some compromise.

Turtles neither talk nor listen. You seldom will get a chance to discuss the issues.

When Teddy Bears talk, everything sounds just fine. When you talk, they’re listening and agreeing with everything you say.

 

 

 

 

Conflict Style Situations where appropriate Situations where inappropriate

Competing “Shark”

1. Issue is trivial 2. Speed by decision is needed 3. Unpopular course of action is implemented 4. Necessary to overcome assertive

subordinates 5. Unfavorable decision by the other party

may be costly to you 6. Others lack expertise to make technical

decision 7. Issue is important to you

 

1. Issue is complex 2. Issue is not important to you 3. Both parties are equally powerful 4. Decision does not have to be made

quickly 5. Subordinates possess high degree

of competence

Collaborative “Owl”

1. Issues are complex 2. Synthesis of ideas is needed to come up

with better solutions 3. Commitment is needed from other parties

for successful implementation 4. Time is available for problem solving 5. One party alone cannot solve the problem 6. Resources possessed by different parties

are needed to solve their common problems

1. Task or problem is simple 2. Immediate decision is required 3. Other parties are unconcerned

about outcome 4. Other parties do not have problem

solving skills

Compromising “Fox”

1. Goals of parties are mutually exclusive 2. Parties are equally powerful 3. Consensus cannot be reached 4. Integrating or dominating style is not

successful 5. Temporary solution to a complex problem

is needed

1. One party is more powerful 2. Problem is complex enough to

need problem-solving approach

Avoiding “Turtle”

1. Issue is trivial 2. Potential dysfunctional effect of

confronting the other part outweighs benefits of resolution

3. Cooling off period is needed

1. Issue is important to you 2. It is your responsibility to make

decisions 3. Parties are unwilling to defer, issue

must be resolved 4. Prompt attention is needed

 

Accommodating “Teddy Bear”

1. You believe that you may be wrong 2. Issue is more important to the other party 3. You are willing to give up something in

exchange for something from the other party in the future

4. You are in a position of weakness 5. Preserving relationship is important

 

1. Issue is important to you 2. You believe that you are right 3. The other party is wrong or

unethical