Which of the three reasons that conflict exists was primarily responsible for the conflict?  Were you able to resolve this conflict effectively?  Why or why not?

A recent fight I had with someone concerned a close friend of mine. She had spent the night at my apartment and we were eating breakfast together. I used to put cereal before milk when I was a youngster. On the other hand, I watched that my pal puts milk into her cereal first. I advised her she was cooking her cereal improperly, and she retaliated by telling me I was making my cereal incorrectly. The fundamental source of this debate was that we had different perspectives of the same issue. We grew up in distinct places and were trained to prepare cereal in different ways. Because we chatted about how we were raised and how we performed certain things, we were able to solve this obstacle. The other argument that I have had was between myself and my roommate. My roommates and I recently had a quarrel about paying costs. I was instructed to pay bills as quickly as possible after getting them. However, they want to pay it when it is due, something I am not used to. "We have diverse interpretations" best identifies our problem out of the three grounds for dispute. How we act now is affected by our former experiences and the conventions we were taught. We haven't resolved our argument yet, and I can't compel someone to modify their beliefs or habits. All I requested was that the bills be paid on time, and that they be paid a day or two earlier of the due date.

What do you think you could have done that would have helped you resolve the conflict more productively? 

In order to resolve the conflict in the first instance with my friend over what should come first between cereal and milk, was to have an understanding that there are different roles that diversity plays in our lives and we were ti make peace with it. It would have been easy when the different diverse ways of handling issues in real life are handled with fun element instead of thinking that one way is wrong and another is right. This would have made it easier to coexist, not only for my case but for every one in the world. Diversity does not make us any different in terms of what we do byt how we do things. It is a beauty and never taint.

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A recent fight I had with someone concerned a close friend of mine. She had spent the night at my apartment and we were eating breakfast together. I used to put cereal before milk when I was a youngster. On the other hand, I watched that my pal puts milk into her cereal first. I advised her she was cooking her cereal improperly, and she retaliated by telling me I was making my cereal incorrectly. The fundamental source of this debate was that we had different perspectives of the same issue. We grew up in distinct places and were trained to prepare cereal in different ways. Because we chatted about how we were raised and how we performed certain things, we were able to solve this obstacle. The other argument that I have had was between myself and my roommate. My roommates and I recently had a quarrel about paying costs. I was instructed to pay bills as quickly as possible after getting them. However, they want to pay it when it is due, something I am not used to. "We have diverse interpretations" best identifies our problem out of the three grounds for dispute. How we act now is affected by our former experiences and the conventions we were taught. We haven't resolved our argument yet, and I can't compel someone to modify their beliefs or habits. All I requested was that the bills be paid on time, and that they be paid a day or two earlier of the due date.

In order to overcome the issue in the first place with my buddy over what should come first between cereal and milk, was to have an awareness that there are various roles that variety plays in our lives and we had to make peace with it. It would have been easier when the numerous unique methods of managing situations in real life are treated with fun factor instead of believing that one approach is bad and another is right. Tis would have made it easy to cohabit, not just for my instance but for every one in the globe. Diversity does not make us any different in terms of what we do byt how we do things. It is a beauty and never tarnish.