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They say" you are not everyone's coup of tea". The author integrates the quotation in the text in order to explain why you are not a coup of tea, and why it is ok not be.Learning to let go of the desire to please people who don't like you is one of the most empowering things you will do for self-growth and self-improvement.

How has he or she introduced the quotation, and what, if anything, has the writer said to explain it and tie it to his or her own text?

She introduces the quote as an explanation of her point. She started by explaining her own experience to try to fix by doing and acting as the way their friends wanted and not as the way he wanted. Despite all of that , she had friends who did not like her and some other people. There will be individuals who take a brief look at you and instantly get you out of their group.

There's going to be those who want you to jump through hoops and run marathons for them, just to drop you like a hot cake when there's nothing in it for them. There will be people who will never take the time to see you and appreciate you for the beautiful, wonderful person you are Don't spend your time on those guys. You 're not their cup of tea, so they're not yours. Focus on what makes you happy and surround yourself with those who support you and love you for you.

The authors says "Those that come out of work and make sure you 're all right, and call you no matter what time of day or night, only to check on you. Those that "get you" and tolerate your own peculiarities and special charms. Those that pick you up and make sure you realize how good a person you are. They 're your people, and you're theirs. And these are the only ones deserving of your time and energy."

She is not asking you to avoid being sweet to everyone because kindness matters, so quit spending your time attempting to persuade someone to have a cup of tea because they don't want tea.

She concludes that Find your people. Be YOU and stop worrying so much about the people who don't like you. link of the article

https://www.kindlyunspoken.com/you-are-not-everyones-cup-of-tea/